Post by LR on Mar 15, 2019 20:11:58 GMT
Hi! I have been married to my husband for just about 30 years. He had suffered from an occasional migraine off and on through our relationship but now he has been dealing with chronic migraine for the past 51/2 years. During this time we have become empty nesters, moved to a new city and really went through many changes. We had grown apart. My husbands demeanor changed when he started getting more migraines and I felt like I was walking on eggshells. We have had some downs and ups but after he came to a point where he thought he might rather be alone (which devastated me), we are communicating better and enjoying a relationship that was better than before. I thought I was sensitive to his needs, but I was not empathetic really. We are moving forward positively but every now and then-when I am stressed at work or something and he is having an episode, I start to take his behavior personally and feel insecure.This was a lot for an introduction- I guess I am here because I am struggling today and need a place to talk. Thanks!